My wife Leanne, is writing a paper on ministering to people who have recently experienced a miscarriage and came upon an article by L. Serene Jones.
As Good Friday approaches I will use the following metaphor to help guide my Good Friday reflections. In the article, Jones provides a beautiful and provocative metaphor about what may have happened in the Trinity when Christ suffered on the cross.
What transpires in the Godhead when one of its members bleeds? Theologians like Moltmann and Luther have urged us to affirm that on the cross, God takes this death into the depths of Godself. The Trinity thus holds it. First person holds the Second, in its death, united with it by the power of the Spirit. But how can the living Godhead hold death within it? The tradition has told us that at this point in the story, our language breaks down, and we must simply ponder the cross and its mysteries.
Perhaps the tradition is right, but perhaps its imaginative resources have been limited by the morphological imaginations of its mostly male theologians. Perhaps what we find in this space of silence is the image of the woman who, in the grips of a stillbirth, has death inside her and yet does not die. Consider the power of this as an image for the Trinity. When Christ is crucified, Gods own child dies. For the God who sent this child into the world bearing the hope of Gods eternal love, this death is a death of hope, the hope that the people who see this child will believe. It is a death of a possibility that has never been, the possibility of true human community.
L. Serene Jones Hope Deferred: Theological Reflections on Reproductive Loss (Infertility, Miscarriage, Stillbirth) Modern Theology 17:2 April 2001.